Pre-adults can be very creative and productive, but the current position of young people in the family structure tends to be seen as preparation for life rather actually than living life. Under these circumstances they put off assuming real responsibility, and become very self-centred. They fail to provide the family with insights and the creative approach necessary to experience life in new ways. When it thus loses the vision of the new, the family stagnates; and the young people are driven to other surroundings where they can live life on their own terms.