If you come to a fork in the road, take it (Yogi Berra).
You don't have to sit on top of a mountain to discover what is right for you. You always know in your heart what you need to do. But you do have to ask yourself if you're willing to make choices. Put yourself in a position where you're making choices about your life, rather than letting other people make those choices for you. That's what balance is all about. (iz Dolan).
There is no such thing as freedom of choice unless there is freedom to refuse (David Hume).