Emotional dependency in marriage

Nature

Emotional dependency in marriage refers to an excessive reliance on a partner for emotional support, validation, and self-worth. This dependency can lead to an imbalance in the relationship, where one partner may feel overwhelmed by the other's needs, while the dependent partner may struggle with feelings of insecurity and fear of abandonment. Such dynamics can hinder personal growth, create resentment, and contribute to conflicts. Emotional dependency often stems from unresolved personal issues or past traumas, making it essential for couples to foster healthy boundaries and communication to maintain a balanced and fulfilling partnership.

Incidence

Emotional dependency in marriage is conditioned by social attitudes and upbringing in most parts of the world.

Claim

Emotional dependency in marriage is characterized by fear, which may be expressed in a number of detrimental ways, such as hostility, domination or submission. It is a result of emotional immaturity and since the couple may mature differently and at different rates, conflict may arise later. One partner may become too assertive and if the other does not submit, he or she may seek satisfaction outside the marriage and contribute to its breakdown.

Counter-claim

The idea of marriage itself connotes dependencies of various kinds - financial, physical, intellectual, social and emotional. These "dependencies" may simply be the healthy expression of the need and ability to share.